The most important thing to do is to make sure she does not already have a boyfriend. Wouldn't it suck to start getting close to someone and about to that point to where you are actually going to ask her out and then you find out she is already with someone. What a big waste of time? Right? Well you at least made a really good close friend. That is the second step there. Just some how find out if she is taken or not. You don't have to actually ask her, but either get it out of her some how or ask some other people.
The next step is to not rush into things. If you do not already talk to the girl then make sure you at least start doing that. You do not want to just randomly go up to some girl you think is just cute and ask them out right away. That would really get them to not like you. Haha! Girls (most of them anyways) like to get to know a guy before she actually wants them to be their boyfriend.
The fourth step to this is starting to hanging out a little more during school, work, or wherever it is that you meant her. It is the almost flirting stage! This will also help more conversations pop up to. Don't let it go silent. Always have something you can say or ask or some story to tell her. And when she wants to talk let her.
The next step to getting a girl to be your girlfriend is making sure you are clean. No one wants a guy that smells, or especially one that has bad breath. So carry some mints and put on cologne before you leave everyday! Maybe she will start liking you way more because of the way you smell. LOL
You need to ask her to go somewhere to eat, like just as simple as grabbing a bite during lunch. Or if you are still in school you can just ask to sit by each other during lunch. This is the sixth step into asking a girl out.
The seventh step is finding a way to ask her to hang out. I feel this has to be after you go grab a bit of eat just because if you do the hanging out and having fun first then it will most likely end up looking like you are just a friend after all. Find out what she likes to do first (like in the previous step where you are suppose to be talking to her and getting to know he and letting her get to know you). Some how get out of her what she wants to do and if it is something as simple as playing baseball or volleyball ask her to go play sometime.
Something you want to do in between all of the steps is throw in some compliments. Just tell her she looks nice today or her outfit looks really good on her. DO NOT tell her that she has looks skinny in an outfit or anything to compliment her about her weight. Some of it might upset her and make her think she has looked fat all a long or it could just sound friendly and like you are just a friend to her, like when you say you look like you have lost some weight. That is a terrible compliment. I think! This is one of the most important steps and can be thrown into about any of the other steps.
After you have done all of these steps above it is time to ask her to go with you on an actual date with you. =] You have done all the small things now and it is time to go further. It can't be a double date either. You have to be alone with her. It could be a movie date or a fancy restaurant or just a simple restaurant. Find out what she likes, once again.
The very last and final step is actually asking for her to be your girlfriend. You have already asked her to go out with you so the best way to do this is to actually ask "Will you be my girlfriend?" It is the best way to ask a girl and I prefer it. A cute way to do it if you are still too shy to ask is to put a note in her purse or locker to where she would find it later.
Some important things you can remember also is:
- BE YOURSELF =]
- Don't push things but also don't wait too long!
- Show interest
While she is your girlfriend:
- If you are shy, you have to stop the shyness
- Never ignore her !!!
- Buy her things (it doesn't have to be expensive, she will still appreciate it)
- And continue to do the things on the important things to remember list up above =]
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